{"id":247,"date":"2023-06-19T07:49:00","date_gmt":"2023-06-19T07:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/?p=247"},"modified":"2023-07-07T07:54:55","modified_gmt":"2023-07-07T07:54:55","slug":"ce-as-putea-face-pentru-a-deveni-prieten-a-cu-copilul-meu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/2023\/06\/19\/ce-as-putea-face-pentru-a-deveni-prieten-a-cu-copilul-meu\/","title":{"rendered":"<strong>Ce a\u0219 putea face pentru a deveni prieten\/\u0103 cu copilul meu?<\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Comunicarea este cheia principal\u0103 pentru consolidarea rela\u0163iei dintre p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i copii. Iar comunicarea trebuie \u00eenceput\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 de la cele mai mici v\u00e2rste, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t, la adolescen\u0163\u0103, copiii s\u0103 fie mult mai deschi\u015fi \u015fi chiar s\u0103 fi\u0163i primii c\u0103rora le cere ajutorul sau \u00een fa\u0163a c\u0103rora s\u0103-\u015fi deschid\u0103 sufletul atunci c\u00e2nd au probleme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>Nu fi\u021bi insistent.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 sunte\u021bi prea insistent\/\u0103 \u00een a vorbi cu copilul t\u0103u, ve\u021bi ob\u0163ine doar efectul contrar. G\u00e2ndi\u021bi-v\u0103 cum vorbi\u021bi tu cu un prieten. Sunte\u0163i calmi, nu insista\u0163i asupra anumitor aspecte dac\u0103 cel\u0103lalt nu \u00ee\u015fi deschide sufletul. Urma\u021bi aceia\u015fi pa\u015fi \u015fi c\u00e2nd vorbi\u021bi cu copilul dvs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>Pre\u0163ui\u021bi<\/strong> <strong>t\u0103cerea.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mai multe studii au relevat faptul c\u0103 unii copii sunt mai \u00eenchi\u015fi \u015fi au nevoie de mai mult timp pentru a-\u015fi face curajul s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103. Lua\u021bi-l \u00een bra\u0163e, alinta\u021bi-l, arat\u0103\u021bi-i dragostea dvs. A\u015fteapta\u021bi r\u0103bd\u0103tor p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd va sim\u0163i c\u0103 este momentul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>Nu critica\u021bi.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 sim\u0163i c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 face\u021bi un comentariu acid, o critic\u0103, e timpul s\u0103 v\u0103 opri\u021bi. Nu v\u0103 transforma\u021bi \u00eentr-un procuror sau judec\u0103tor. Nimic nu \u00eentrerupe mai rapid o comunicare dec\u00e2t fraza \u201cAr fi trebuit s\u0103\u2026\u201d sau \u201c\u0162i-am spus eu c\u0103\u2026\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>Asculta\u021bi copilul c\u00e2nd v\u0103 juca\u0163i.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mul\u0163i copii, \u00een special b\u0103ie\u0163ii, sunt mult mai receptivi \u015fi comunicativi c\u00e2nd se joac\u0103 sau \u00eentreprind o activitate \u00eempreun\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u0163ii. Dac\u0103 a\u021bi observat asta la copilul dvs, g\u0103si\u021bi activit\u0103\u0163ile care-i plac cel mai mult \u015fi vorbi\u0163i c\u00e2te \u00een lun\u0103 \u015fi \u00een stele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>Discuta\u021bi despre pasiunile copilului.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cencearc\u0103 s\u0103 canalizezi discu\u0163iile c\u0103tre pasiunile lui: fie c\u0103-i place s\u0103 colec\u0163ioneze CD-uri, p\u0103pu\u015fi Barbie sau download-\u0103rile de pe net. Pornind astfel \u00een discu\u0163ii, vei reu\u015fi s\u0103 deschizi porti\u0163a c\u0103tre sufletul lor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>Purta\u021bi discu\u0163iile pe teritoriul lui.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De fiecare dat\u0103 c\u00e2nd vre\u021bi s\u0103 vorbi\u021bi cu copilul dvs, purta\u021bi discu\u0163iile \u00eentr-o zon\u0103 \u00een care el se simte confortabil. Duce\u021bi-v\u0103 dvs pe teritoriul lui \u015fiastfel copilul va fi mai relaxat \u015fi mai deschis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>Evita\u021bi \u00eentreb\u0103rile de acuzare.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centreb\u0103rile de genul \u201cDe ce-ai f\u0103cut asta?\u201d atunci c\u00e2nd copilul gre\u0219e\u0219te cu ceva nu sunt recomandate, mai ales copiilor p\u00e2n\u0103 la 3-4 ani. Copiii nu au r\u0103spunsuri logice la aceste \u00eentreb\u0103ri, deoarece nu poate stabili rela\u021bii de cauz\u0103 \u0219i efect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar se vor sim\u021bi vinove\u021bi \u0219i acuza\u021bi de tot ce poate fi mai r\u0103u. \u00cen loc de aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare, primul lucru asigura\u021bi-v\u0103 c\u0103 nu i s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat nimic r\u0103u, dup\u0103 care ruga\u021bi-l s\u0103 v\u0103 descrie ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat \u0219i ajuta\u021bi-l s\u0103-\u0219i clarifice unde \u0219i cu ce a gre\u0219it, vorbind cu el pe un ton calm \u0219i lini\u0219tit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>G\u0103si\u021bi momentul potrivit.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fiecare p\u0103rinte \u00ee\u015fi cunoa\u015fte cel mai bine copilul. Sunt unii care sunt mai vorb\u0103re\u0163i diminea\u0163a, al\u0163ii la pr\u00e2nz, al\u0163ii seara. G\u0103si\u021bi momentul \u00een care copilul dvs este cel mai receptiv \u015fi purta\u021bi discu\u0163iile importante \u00een acele momente ale zilei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>Instaura\u0163i momentul \u201cToat\u0103 familia \u00eempreun\u0103!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cu to\u0163ii sunte\u021bi pleca\u0163i care \u00eencotro cu serviciul, afacerile sau gr\u0103dini\u021ba\/\u015fcoala. Indiferent de meseria p\u0103rin\u0163ilor \u015fi v\u00e2rsta copiilor, trebuie s\u0103 existe o zi fix\u0103 \u00een s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 (cu c\u00e2t mai des cu at\u00e2t mai bine), \u00een care membrii familiei s\u0103 petreac\u0103 timpul \u00eempreun\u0103. Varianat ideal\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple \u00een fiecare sear\u0103, la cin\u0103 (vezi urm\u0103torea regul\u0103\/recomandare).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\uf047 <strong>Deconecta\u0163i-v\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen multe familii a fost inst\u0103urat\u0103 aceast\u0103 regul\u0103 \u015fi pare c\u0103 func\u0163ioneaz\u0103. \u00cen fiecare sear\u0103, timp de una-dou\u0103 ore (segmentul orar \u015fi-l alege fiecare familie \u00een func\u0163ie de program \u2013 17:00-19:00; 18:00-20:00; 19:00-21:00) absolut fiecare membru al familiei renun\u0163\u0103 la telefon mobil, calculator, televizor, laptop etc. \u00cen aceste una-dou\u0103 ore fie lua\u0163i masa \u00eempreun\u0103, fie discuta\u0163i, \u00eens\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea trebuie s\u0103 fie \u201cprezent\u0103\u201d \u015fi nu cu g\u00e2ndul \u00een alt\u0103 parte.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fiecare familie este unic\u0103 \u015fi nu exist\u0103 solu\u0163ia magic\u0103, universal valabil\u0103 pentru to\u0163i. Cheia este s\u0103 descoperi ceea ce \u0163i se potrive\u015fte \u0163ie \u015fi familiei tale. \u00cens\u0103 nu uita c\u0103 cel mai pre\u0163ios cadou pe care \u00eel po\u0163i da copilului t\u0103u este prezen\u0163a ta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Comunicarea este cheia principal\u0103 pentru consolidarea rela\u0163iei dintre p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i copii. Iar comunicarea trebuie \u00eenceput\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 de la cele mai mici v\u00e2rste, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t, la adolescen\u0163\u0103, copiii s\u0103 fie mult mai deschi\u015fi \u015fi chiar s\u0103 fi\u0163i primii c\u0103rora le cere ajutorul sau \u00een fa\u0163a c\u0103rora s\u0103-\u015fi deschid\u0103 sufletul atunci c\u00e2nd au probleme. \uf047 Nu fi\u021bi&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/2023\/06\/19\/ce-as-putea-face-pentru-a-deveni-prieten-a-cu-copilul-meu\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\"><strong>Ce a\u0219 putea face pentru a deveni prieten\/\u0103 cu copilul meu?<\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=247"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":258,"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247\/revisions\/258"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/edanteprescolara\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}