{"id":264,"date":"2022-03-16T11:13:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-16T11:13:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/copii\/?p=264"},"modified":"2022-04-20T11:14:59","modified_gmt":"2022-04-20T11:14:59","slug":"asistenta-psiho-sociala-a-copiilor-singuri-acasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zi-deschisa.ro\/copii\/index.php\/2022\/03\/16\/asistenta-psiho-sociala-a-copiilor-singuri-acasa\/","title":{"rendered":"<strong>Asisten\u0163a psiho-social\u0103 a copiilor singuri acas\u0103<\/strong>"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>&#8211;<\/strong><strong> <\/strong><em><strong>Manifest\u0103ri psiho-comportamentale ale copiilor r\u0103ma\u015fi singuri acas\u0103<\/strong><\/em><strong>&#8211;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen urma studiilor realizate de speciali\u015fti a reie\u015fit faptul c\u0103, \u00een mediul rural, un copil din zece chiule\u015fte de la \u015fcoal\u0103 \u00een mod constant dup\u0103 plecarea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor la munc\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate. Este adev\u0103rat c\u0103 o parte din copiii celor pleca\u0163i duc o via\u0163\u0103 mai bun\u0103 gra\u0163ie banilor pe care \u00eei trimit p\u0103rin\u0163ii. \u015ei totu\u015fi banii nu \u0163in locul afec\u0163iunii. \u00cen conformitate cu statisticile ap\u0103rute \u00een zona Moldovei, p\u0103rintele care opteaz\u0103 pentru munca \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate este mama, iar decizia de a pleca este mai frecvent\u0103 pentru ambii p\u0103rin\u0163i, \u00een familiile cu copii de \u015fcoal\u0103 general\u0103 sau de liceu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Copiii cu p\u0103rin\u0163i pleca\u0163i la munc\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate au o situa\u0163ie material\u0103 mai bun\u0103 comparativ cu ceilal\u0163i. Majoritatea de\u0163in telefoane mobile \u015fi i\u015fi petrec vacan\u0163ele \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate. Cu toate acestea, copiii sufer\u0103 din cauza deterior\u0103rii rela\u0163iei cu p\u0103rin\u0163ii, exist\u00e2nd o asociere semnificativ\u0103 \u00eentre absen\u0163a p\u0103rin\u0163ilor \u015fi frecven\u0163a simptomelor de deprimare la ace\u015ftia. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De\u015fi \u00een marea majoritate a cazurilor plecarea la munc\u0103 este temporar\u0103, efectele asupra copiilor pot fi similare cu cele ale unei desp\u0103r\u0163iri pe termn lung sau definitive. Pe termen scurt, plecarea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor se traduce, \u00een via\u0163a copiilor, prin agresivitate verbal\u0103 sau fizic\u0103, marginalizare, anxietate, note mici, chiul sau chiar abandon \u015fcolar. Pe termen lung, aceasta genera\u0163ie de copii lipsi\u0163i de iubirea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor \u015fi de armonia familial\u0103 poate deveni una de adul\u0163i -problem\u0103. Agresivitatea multor copii din genera\u0163ia &#8220;Singur acas\u0103&#8221;, refuzul lor de a accepta ca au probleme, durerea cauzat\u0103 de lipsa p\u0103rin\u0163ilor \u00eei transform\u0103, la maturitate, \u00eentr-o genera\u0163ie de adul\u0163i neintegra\u0163i social. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Copilul care cre\u015fte f\u0103r\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163i sau numai cu unul dintre ei, va deveni un adult care nu in\u0163elege sensul c\u0103s\u0103toriei \u015fi nu are \u00eencredere \u00een valorile familiei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plecarea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor pentru perioade \u00eendelungate de timp reprezint\u0103 o cauz\u0103 pentru comportamente deviante, pentru sc\u0103derea performan\u0163elor \u015fcolare, pentru o degradare a st\u0103rii fizice \u015fi psihice a copilului cauzate de lipsa controlului, a educa\u0163iei, a modelelor pozitive, precum \u015fi a problemelor de comunicare, a dificulta\u0163ilor de adaptare, a deficien\u0163elor de \u00eengrijire, a supra\u00eenc\u0103rc\u0103rii cu sarcini etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Separarea copiilor de c\u0103tre unul sau de ambii p\u0103rin\u0163i pleca\u0163i la munc\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate pe o perioad\u0103 prelungit\u0103 de timp genereaz\u0103 tr\u0103irea sentimentului de abandon, cu repercursiuni asupra personalita\u0163ii. Durata absen\u0163ei poate fi asociat\u0103 cu o serie de probleme, cu neasigurarea unor nevoi ale copilului. \u00cen mediul \u015fcolar principalele probleme identificate se refer\u0103 la modul de rela\u0163ionare cu colegii \u015fi la modul de \u00eendeplinire a cerin\u0163elor didactice. Indiferent de nivelul de studii al copiilor, pe fondul priv\u0103rii afective acut reclamate de ace\u015ftia, violen\u0163a verbal\u0103 identificat\u0103 ini\u0163ial \u00een familia de origine este reg\u0103sit\u0103 \u00een rela\u0163ia cu prietenii, colegii de \u015fcoal\u0103 \u015fi persoana de \u00eengrijire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen mediul rural \u00een special se constat\u0103 o supra\u00eenc\u0103rcare cu responsabilit\u0103\u0163i dar \u015fi un num\u0103r mai mare de situa\u0163ii \u00een care problemele financiare nu sunt rezolvate prin plecarea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Copilul care cre\u015fte f\u0103r\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163i sau numai cu unul dintre ei va deveni un adult care nu \u00eentelege sensul c\u0103s\u0103toriei, nu va avea \u00eencredere \u00een institu\u0163ia c\u0103s\u0103toriei \u015fi, \u00een general, \u00een oameni. Speciali\u015ftii sus\u0163in<\/em><em> c\u0103 adul\u0163ii care au fost \u00een preadolesce\u0163\u0103 &#8220;singuri acas\u0103&#8221; vor dori, in general, meserii care s\u0103 le aduc\u0103 bani rapid: fotbalist, fotomodel, c\u00e2nt\u0103re\u0163, dansatoare. <\/em><em>Cei care au fost abandona\u0163i de mici i\u015fi doresc mai degrab\u0103 meserii prin care s\u0103 &nbsp;impart\u0103 dreptatea, cum ar fi cea de poli\u0163ist.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plecarea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor la munc\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate nu implic\u0103 automat apari\u0163ia problemelor prezentate anterior. Unii p\u0103rin\u0163i pleac\u0103 numai dup\u0103 stabilirea unui ,,plan\u2019\u2019 care s\u0103 le protejeze copiii \u015fi care s\u0103 le asigure acestora acele servicii necesare suplinirii absen\u0163ei lor. \u00cen prea pu\u0163ine situa\u0163ii \u00eens\u0103 p\u0103rin\u0163ii apeleaz\u0103 la m\u0103surile de protec\u0163ie prevazute de Legea 272\/2004 privind protec\u0163ia \u015fi promovarea drepturilor copilului.<em>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Se recomand\u0103 ca familia \u00een care se ia decizia ca unul sau ambii p\u0103rinti s\u0103 plece la munc\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate, pentru o perioad\u0103 mai scurt\u0103 sau mai lung\u0103 de timp, sa solicite sprijin in vederea informarii si consilierii cu privire la modalita\u0163ile de preg\u0103tire a copiilor \u00een vederea reducerii la minim a riscurilor posibil psihotraumatizante ce ar putea s\u0103 apar\u0103 din acest eveniment de via\u0163\u0103. &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>De asemenea, pentru asigurarea unei protec\u0163ii profesioniste, asistentul social trebuie s\u0103 cunoasc\u0103 legisla\u0163ia in vigoare \u015fi s\u0103 internalizeze conceptele de baz\u0103 prevazute de standardele minime \u00een domeniul protec\u0163iei drepturilor copilului<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8211; Manifest\u0103ri psiho-comportamentale ale copiilor r\u0103ma\u015fi singuri acas\u0103&#8211; \u00cen urma studiilor realizate de speciali\u015fti a reie\u015fit faptul c\u0103, \u00een mediul rural, un copil din zece chiule\u015fte de la \u015fcoal\u0103 \u00een mod constant dup\u0103 plecarea p\u0103rin\u0163ilor la munc\u0103 \u00een str\u0103in\u0103tate. 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